Illustration of an outdoor scene. Along a grassy hill is a pink blanket with flowers atop it in a vase, in addition to a lit candle, which is surrounded by a few loose flowers. The sky is dark blue.

MOON DAY

Elizabeth Woodson (she/her)

Listen to the Poem:

I have always been drawn to it

To her

The Moon

My mother taught me to pay attention 

She says that she learned that from her mother


“Look at that mooooooon!!!!!”

She is thrilled

Every time

So I am too


For many years, I misinterpreted this inheritance 

It was a quirk

I was known by my friends as Moon Girl

Always making a loud squeal when the moon was in sight

Pointing and making everyone else look too

We laughed and kept going 

“Why do you love the moon?” they would ask

I didn’t really know. “It’s pretty!!” I would say.


Around my house are the many moon-themed gifts I have received over the years

Two sets of moon coasters

A moon bracelet, three moon necklaces

Two moon banners

A moon canvas bag

And many moon journals  


Since I moved to Montgomery, I’ve had full moon rise watching parties

I’m having one today

You can too:

  1. Look up the day of the next full moon

  2. Identify a good spot – the top of a hill! Or a park with an open horizon, ideally a flat field with visibility due east and not too many trees up close (although a treeline can add to the drama)

  3. Look up the time that the full moon will rise 

  4. Text your friends to meet you there 30 minutes before the time the internet told you

  5. Bring: 

    1. Blankets

    2. A candle

    3. Some flowers

    4. A moon playlist

    5. Pens, paper, some kind of reflection to offer - what are we releasing? What are we growing? 

    6. Snacks 

  6. Gather 

  7. Marvel at the sun setting

  8. Turn around 180 degrees and wait for the moon to enter 


She never comes when the internet says she will

No

We must wait

And watch

We must pay attention 

She’ll come when she is ready


Who will be the first one to glimpse her??


WOWWWWWWW there she isssssssss


First there is celebration

Noisy

Joyful

“Can you believe how bright it is???”


Then there is quiet

We just watch

She moves so fast but so slow

Becoming bluer as she rises

We are enthralled 

“And to think, this happens every month!!”


One time, Gracen who is 5 says we must all run to her

He leads the way

3, 2, 1, GO!!

We sprint towards the moon

She lays out a road for us

We are flying to her!!!!


The park does have an end, and we do have to stop running, but we feel closer

To her

To each other

We walk back to the group, panting, happy


These friends also ask, “Why do you love the moon?”


I didn’t know I would find the answer learning about whiteness

Learning about my people

Before we became “white”

The Celtic, the Germanic, the Anglo-Saxon cultures from whom I descend 

I have been learning of their cosmology, their toasting rituals, their land practices


And then I learned that they were lunar

Their time and relationships and life-understanding was determined by the moon

Full moons were their times of celebration, especially at the Harvest


And then it coalesced 

My mother taught me to look for the moon

And her mother taught her

Could this be one thread of connection - to land, to culture - that did survive?

That somehow made its way through those generations of my people choosing whiteness and denial and destruction?


???


Yes.

Yes. 


It is not a quirk. 

It is not random. 

It is old. 

It is nurturing. 

It is known to my spirit. 

It is one way to repair. 


And now as I pay attention, I know why

I will keep sharing with the children, as my mother has told me and her mother told her

This will be the inheritance that I choose to pass down


It is already starting

Gracen asked me, “When is the next moon party? I want to run to the moon again!”

At each gathering, we greet each other with, “Happy Moon Day!” 

At the end, we say, “Can’t wait til next month!”


And I know that there will be a next month

And I will understand why I

And so many 

Are drawn to her light

Illustration of an outdoor scene. Flowers, a lit candle, and sandles rest atop a blanket. Three adults and a child stand beneath trees and the glowing moon and stars. The child point to the moon above and a man stretches his arms outwards.
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